OK, here are the 3 stages of "touching" you should work through.
stage 1: hands, lower back
get used to touching her hands... its leads to holding hands (sounds lame, but is REALLY powerful). Guiding her through a door with your hand on her lower back is really good.
stage 2: neck, upper leg, stomach
after you guys can hang out and you can touch these parts with your "parts" (doesnt have to be your hands at this point really), the neck touch is really cool when you do something with her hair.... after you have hit most of these a few times and she likes it, you are then ready for stage 3.
stage 3: well, you probably get the idea by now, this is kissing and whatever highschool kids do nowadays.
Also protip:
99/100 times when a girl suggests you watch a movie together, she assumes there will not be much movie watching going on.... If you are not doing one of stage2 or stage3 after 10 minutes of the movie, kick her out the door and call another girl (or just go and get your leather vest and lookup the local gay bar).
Sometimes you find movie buff nerd girls... I cant really offer advice here other than you may just have to settle for stage2 stuff here.
