This.
There's little we can do except tell you to show him this thread and the rampant disapproval of the idea of a body kit and hope he will come to his senses and either dump the car for a different one, or keep it and limit his body modifications to tasteful ones.
In the event of a lack of senses to come to, you tell that sucka he's actin' a foo' for wantin' to put a jive*** shell on his ride, yo.
Anyway, back to being suburban white.