well thats the problem. i literally wasnt trying. they are worried something physically is wrong. but im not nessesarily complaining other than the fact that i literally have two pair of pants three shorts and two pair of leggings that actually fit me. my shirts are still all too big. i was working out at first. but after a couple months i stopped because life is too hectic. but i pretty much only cut out fast food turners tea (but you have to be from pittsburgh to know about that) and pop. and i only eat when im hungry and stop eating when im not hungry instead of when im full.
