So I think I found the source of several of my problems but I want opinions. My car struggles when I try to start it first of all. It will rev up for a split second, then drop down to almost 0 RPMs and sound like it's going to stall, then sometimes slowly go back up. It will then run fine for the most part except long drives when the engine gets hot or I hit the throttle hard multiple times in a row. It will then hesitate and kind of stutter on the throttle which jerks the whole car. If this hesitation happens a couple times I start to hear a weird higher pitched noise until I turn the car off for a decent amount of time. Once the noise is gone, the problems usually gone for a while. The sending unit is also bad. When the ignition is in the On position but not started I can hear a 2-3 second mechanical whirring sound, not sure if that is the pump or not.
I have replaced the intake, cleaned the maf sensor, gotten new spark plug wires, the spark plugs are good, let the computer re-learn, and these are the only problems that haven't gone away. They all seem to add up to the fuel pump. I don't have a fuel pressure gauge and don't want to spend the money on one when that money could go toward a new pump. Opinions?