here's another update I've noticed.... When the car wants to be gay and the headlights not come on when they are supposed to... I've noticed these two things: When you open the door to get in , the chime is dinging super fast like the headlight switch was left on,,, and the red light on the dash is flashing a million miles per hour..... close the door or put the key in the ignition and everything goes back to normal..... I'm stumped.... I don't see this being a big wiring issue as the car looks like new and has never been wrecked, had mice in it (wire chewers), etc.....