I disconnected the switch on the shifter, and put a new fuse in for reverse lites.I still don't know if the BCM is bad or if it is the switch in the shifter.
It looks like I would have to replace the shifter to replace the switch.I bypassed shift lock and key. Everything is working now without blowing fuse.
I can at least get the car inspected now. Anybody know if I can test the switch or do I just keep throwing parts and money at it?