I took the throttle body off.
When I broke loose one of the bottom bolts on the throttle body, about one cup of fluid came out. The fluid was clear, and hit the hot exhaust under the throttle body, so I assume it was just water.

I have a replacement aka used PCM, and throttle body I got from an online salvage yard.
The total for these 2 items was 120 bucks.
I dunno if my throttle body is bad, but I cleaned it up, and will hang onto it, same with the orginal PCM.

I am doing the security relearn, and from there I will see if the stalling problem is fixed.
I will update this post either way.

Picture of my original throttle body below, about 65,000 Miles.