1. did you look just behind and down to the right of the DIC location? you may have the connector. it'd be covered by foam and in your dash by your glovebox
2. if not, look for partouts in the for sale section, i'm sure just about any user parting out will be able to provide you with one for cheap
3. if no luck, then do as SuperSport said and get one through morad
4. i hope you let your junkyard know that was the last time they got business from you
5. there's a how-to on how to fix the TCS light being on when it should be off and vice versa, maybe someone else can link you there seeing that i'm having no luck. or just search yourself, i'm pretty sure BackInBlack provided it