Alright, well with lots more searching, and some feeling around on the car, I finally found the sensor. It's not something you can see...easily.
The best way to get to it is to go the front of your car and reach in the large opening in the bumper on the left. Then feel up and back, against the "wall" opposite side of you. It's attached with a christmas tree and just pops out. The sensor is connected with a regular plug. That's all you need to disconnect to remove it.
*hint* If you were to take the christmas tree out and let the sensor dangle, you would see it though the passenger side "lower fashia" in front of the radiator....
Here's a pic of the sensor
