The throttle body gasket does not have oil going through it. The gaskets you're looking for are the lower intake manifold gaskets (go between the heads and lower intake). Mine started going (leaking a little coolant) at ~50k miles.
Here's a picture of new gaskets and what you're looking at for the repair:
I made a write up on how to do the repair over at NAIOA, but you have to register to be able to view it (free). Let me know if you're interested.