I stick with dex 6 just because its trusted and its kinda like one of those "if it aint broke, dont fix it" kinda deals.
As for the plugs and wires. I would just do the plugs, because the wires should be just fine unless you happen to break one. I only did plugs when I did mine. For me too funds are kinda tight because of college coming in the fall. I am only doing smalls things to the car aswell.