yep. very true. that is how most people were out trannys. but most people are dumb azz and dont follow those guide lines. ive been driving around in the manaul mode lately and i kind of find that if you keep it in third it rides pretty well. like i will start off in second then go to third. third will still use second sometimes, just enough to get going then go right into 3rd. i kinda like it cuz its like no bull, just go straight for your gear. no waiting on slow auto to finally shift. i also have stock pcm. and i have no idea if that is bad for the tranny or not tho. it just feels better for it sometimes. not all the time. its like crusing driving