My 08 you can turn the drls off by twisting the light switch ackwards toward auto... Just have to remember to do it all the time. My hids seem to have a vibrating look when sitting still, which may be flickering, idk.
Yeah thats what I do now to turn my lights off but I heard that quick ons and offs are readily bad for hids and can burn out the ballasts. Thats why I'm looking for a way to make them not turn on at all untill the might time light come on or I manually turn them on