You're not in bad shape and although those things seem like a lot. It's all minor. Maybe your expectations are off... A vehicle, ANY vehicle with over 100k is GOING to require some initial maintenance items such as but not limited to, oil/filter change, tranny fluid/filter change, air filter, fuel filter, belts, plugs, wires, struts, springs, tires, a/c recharge, etc. you purchase a vehicle with 100k and no idea how it was maintained regardless of how it looks and you can expect also: a starter, an alternator, fuel pump...

There was a time when 100k was considered end of life for a car... Today, it's mid-life if you are willing to give it some tlc.

Good luck with it, don't get discouraged! They're great cars.