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Minnesota in November? Hmm.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kolton Lock
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Originally Posted by SlowNA06
Yeah that's one of them.
I hate this place so much.
The lack of sunlight and the cold make my depression go tenfold.
I get a tanning subscription just because i can't be without some form of artificial sunlight
Then i have a girlfriend that i never fvcking talk to because she is horrible at responding to things. She's kinda dumb but i care about her.
I'm falling apart in school too.
I had all.A's and B's, now they have gone down tremoundously just because i am too depressed to catch up.
Nobody i know has time to hang out because they all work and lord knows for a person who is depressed, being left alone with your thoughts is the worst thing that can happen.
I'm so done.
/rant
Just keep battling
My 23 yo daughter left her husband for a 16 yo boy. She and a previous boyfriend have a little girl. The 16 yo got my daughter pregnent and beat her. I had 'words" with him and he and my daughter had me arrested. It cost me $1000 to get a lawyer to get the case dropped. When the bio father found out about it he filed for custody of my granddaughter. He's a drug dealer/user so I paid a lawyer $1500 to fight the case so he can't get her, there will be more costs in that case.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kolton Lock
It will cost me another $1000 to get my arrest record expunged. I think I need to do that because I'm licensed to carry a deadly weapon in 33 states.
I have RA and I'm in pain everyday and take meds to stop my immune system from attacking my body. The weak immune system means I catch every bug that I come in contact with. With all this I can't focus at work and I'm not getting **** done. I should have retired last year but it doesn't look like I'll ever have the money with these battles going on.
Oorah
Dude...
That's a lot of heavy stuff.
I am sorry about that, i hope can figure out some kind of custody.
In a similar thing. My moms friend was too much of a user so the grandparents took custody.
Maybe you could do something like that if you wanted..
Problems at 18 seem so light in comparison...
Ah, depression. Been there, probably am there. Hell who knows. BUT I feel you on school man. I was an A B student too and now...well I'm withdrawing. Don't invest too much in young love please. It's like pointless heartbreak.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kolton Lock
Man, Problems at 18 are the worst. I've been there and still remember how bad it was. We tried to take custody but in Delaware it's almost impossible. The judge said the birth father (who hasn't cared about or seen the kid in almost 4 years) should jump in. Dumb azs judges in DE. We'll win the custody case for my daughter and we can then see she always has what she needs. I hope my daughter will tire of this kid and dump him. He dropped out of school in the 8th grade.
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Originally Posted by Kolton Lock
Just take me for example.
Young love for 5 years gone.
Dont get your head and heart so wound up in this girl, better will come down the road.
Keep your head high and things will turn around.
I know that. Its my first relationship in 3 years. So its a little strange at the same time.Quote:
Originally Posted by DanPrixGTP
The court systems are so screwed. MN has a fairly decent custody court.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sudden
Highschool dropouts. Those are just sad. I hope she will too.
Its not like i love her, i just care about her, and i just would like some communication you know?Quote:
Originally Posted by brandonl2000
Its my senior year too, so its even worse. I've got easy classes and i just can't do it.
Dude, get through the end. I'm in first semester of my sophomore year and I'm just like nahhhh I went down the wrong road. But you're so close...clearly you wanted it. I don't think I ever wanted it. I just went because it was convenient and I was "supposed to."
And yeah I understand. I'm the same way... I wanna hear from ya at least once a day hell. Even if all you say is hi bye kiss my ass. I wanna hear SUMPIN!
Stay strong my friend. Your so close to the end of high school and finish it out as strong as possible. Dont give up, that just shows that your weak. Be strong and finish through. We all fall down to get back up and bounce back.
If you dont have a job already, go find one. When i lost my girlfriend of 5 years, i luckily have two jobs that kept me busy. Not only did it take my mind of things, getting a paycheck always made things better too.
There are moments when troubles enter our lives and we can do nothing to avoid them.
But they are there for a reason. Only when we have overcome them will we understand why they were there.
When I was younger I met a girl I knew I could never live without. It didn't work out and I met another girl I wanted maddly, it didn't work out. I finally got with the woman I've been married to for 47 years. Yep I'm that old :)
Life is throwing me so many curve balls. My gma is not well. Kidneys are at 12% function. Going to little rock first thing tomorrow. Will keep everyone posted. Guess I'll have a lot of down time at the hospital...
My parents actually took custody of my uncle's kids. He and his *extremely* fat "fiancee" had two kids and they were extremely unfit parents. My uncle is an alcoholic and druggie and she has schizophrenia and doesn't take her medication... also a druggie too. When DSS found the kids they were at the place they were supposed to be, but the babysitter (also a druggie) was not there and they were sitting on the floor playing with feces. DSS requested that my parents take custody of them because in South Dakota we have too many children in the foster care system. for two years now my cousin's have been my younger brother and sister. And they no longer have nearly as bad behavioral issues or my sister's weight issues she inherited from her mother.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sudden
On a similar note I got this text from my *future* mother-in-law..... don't know wtf brought it on but kinda pissed me off cuz I have nothing but respect for them now.... she brought up something that hasn't been true for a couple years feeling wise...
Now the part about my parents calling here starts here... when I met my fiancee she was a pathological liar, extremely manipulative, and very controlling. She always had to have her way, something she learned from her mother. When my parents started seeing this they really didn't like her. Well one night I got home a few hours late after being pulled over and held for an hour and a half and that's when that call was made. I knew about the call the whole time. Courtney didn't though and I didn't let her get the chance to find out. I have always defended her and her family even if I have never supported the way she treats my fiancee and her sister (appearances are everything to her) and this is what she throws at me...... sad to see a grown woman act like a child but she always has to have her way. My assumption is that courtney and her mother got into a fight and she used this as leverage to get a leg up on her mother for once instead of her mother bringing up the past to get a one up on her daughter being right. Now somehow this **** is on me because THEY got in a fight!? Whatever she'll grow up some day.... may not be till her death bed but whatever.Quote:
I am enjoying listening to court tell me how you and your family do not like me and how dysfunctional you think we are making my day totally i find that very offensive even dysfunctional people have feelings guess that doesnt matter remember a night oh so very long ago when your mom and ron called me and totally trashed court on the phone Richie it was one of the saddest nights i listened to them for a long time and all i really said when they finally got done venting and trashing my daughter was " i am sorry you feel that way " i didnt tell court or you about the incident . . nothing to be gained by it . i love my family even with all their faults but i would never in my wildest dreams call and say what they said to me about my daughter. even knowing court and understanding their frustration with her. love how you and court are there for each other . that being said i think i deserve your respect but maybe i Dont. Dont want you to repeat this to court riche
Peggy
Just important to me that you know that i have feelings and apparently i Dont have your respect or courts :(
Peggy
On a positive note I start on the replacement fender for my car tomorrow
Sorry to here that Brandon.
Do you start your day reading the AARP magazine as you sip OJ and take some Geritol Platinum? LOL... thanks for making me feel a bit youngerQuote:
Originally Posted by Sudden
No, I'm more like a young guy that has ailments. I do start the day with blood pressure pills. I don't see any reason to change the way I think because I've gotten older. I've always been right wing so I didn't change there like some old men do. I can still shoot and drive pretty good and still like doing that. I'm married so I haven't chased girls for a long time. I still appreciate them though. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by BillBoost37
I'm chasing ... looking for one to be with for 47+ years, was out shooting Saturday, bruised my shoulder with a 12 gauge (step dad's old gun.. it's mean) ... I hear ya.
yes..I was tucked up to my shoulder tight. It hits you with a harsh amount of recoil though