Thread: Getting out of a bad relationship

Hey guys.

I just wanted to get this out because it's been bothering me quite a bit lately.


background info:
I've been in this relationship for a while now, but right from the beginning there were a bunch of red flags I should have taken notice of. Signs of abuse, neglect, whatever you want to call it. Things that left scars that I didn't have the time or the resources to deal with properly, so I just went along with it and hoped that one day I'd be able to accept things for what they are. I tried to take the attitude that "ignorance is bliss" but all that did was cause more problems for me.

I spent way too long trying to figure out ways to make things better, but no matter what I did I always ran into new problems. It's like I would fix one thing and then three other things would go wrong. I had to deal with a lot of bi-polarity. i really did try to make the best of things with the resources I had on hand but no matter what I did things only got worse.

For a while things settled down and it seemed like everything was going to be ok. I had dealt with and fixed all of the past issues in the relationship that I knew about. A few months went by and I stared to let myself get attached again but then one day something small came up and it pushed me over the edge. i realized that I just didn't want to deal with any of the bull**** anymore and that I shouldn't have settled for less than what I deserved in the first place.

I thought long and hard about the decision I had to make and I've decided to do what's best for me. Tomorrow morning I'm breaking it off. Cutting all ties completely, and I'm never even going to think about this mistake again. I'm throwing up the deuces like Chris Brown and going on to the next one like Jay -Z.

No more of this crap for me. I'm taking a stand for myself.

Tomorrow morning it's all over. I'm driving up to the bank and transferring the title of my Cobalt SS to the new owner, taking my money and never looking back.

Make sure you make it to the bank before you cut ties, sounds like she's crazy enough to retaliate. Welcome back to the single life!

Originally Posted by Explicit_Spade

Make sure you make it to the bank before you cut ties, sounds like she's crazy enough to retaliate. Welcome back to the single life!

LOL..I think the relationship hes talking about is with the Balt

Yea its def not a human lol.Had me for a second though

Originally Posted by Explicit_Spade

Make sure you make it to the bank before you cut ties, sounds like she's crazy enough to retaliate. Welcome back to the single life!

I'm getting the vibe that you knew I was talking about the car and you're playing along. Am I correct in thinking this?

Gotta cash that check so it doesn't go through... Then never look back, duh... who wouldn't know this thread was about a car...

lol, wow, for the first 98% of it I thought you were leaving your GF/wife/fiancee..

good story, lol

Originally Posted by 98GPGT2D

lol, wow, for the first 98% of it I thought you were leaving your GF/wife/fiancee..

good story, lol

That's what I was aiming for haha.

whatcha getting now?

Originally Posted by jaren02gt

whatcha getting now?

I'm afraid to say because Bio might ban me

STI?

Originally Posted by ZR1Vette09

STI?

Haha yep. Preferably a 2006 (I'm looking at one right now, actually, getting close to pulling the trigger on it). I liek the front end of the 06-07's better. If a clean enough 04-05 with low miles came up for the right price I'd buy it though.

did i call that or what.. post pics and make a members ride and go wingless and put some killer rims on there sit that ass down LOW put on a sick ass roof rack... im jealous.. ive wanted a subby so long now, ive got a build planned out for both an impreza and a leggy gt

I don't know did you call it? lol. I'll never go wingless though, I'm going to wear that obnoxious STi spoiler proudly I don't really have a lot of mods planned out as of now, but I'm sure they will happen as time goes along.

BTW I love your avatar. BDS is one of my favorite moves of all time.

hhhmm maybe that wasnt you... i told one of the balt guys on here to get a subaru instead.

and oh yes, thanks, the saints are the sh!t, my favorite movie evarr

Originally Posted by SilvaMan61

hhhmm maybe that wasnt you... i told one of the balt guys on here to get a subaru instead.

and oh yes, thanks, the saints are the sh!t, my favorite movie evarr

I don't think it was me. I sold my GTP in August with all intentions of getting a WRX but things didn't work out and I needed a car so I bought the SS. Now that I've got some money saved up and I sold my R6 it's time to go for what I really wanted in the first place.

well good for you man. no buy one and show me sexy pics of it

Haha I'll do what I can for you.